About two years ago, I looked around my world and noticed that Love Relationships seemed to be changing. 9 out of 10 of my close friends ( and their friends ) were in dissatisfying marriages, some for many years. 'Stuck', 'soulless', 'walking dead', 'going through life like a zombie' were some of the more dramatic terms that I began to hear frequently. Many were more vague, 'there's just something missing'. The more people I spoke to, the more I became suspicious that this was part of a global shift in consciousness. Love relationships as we once defined them, were no longer feeding our souls. It seemed to me that what was occurring was a common longing for a deeper intimacy and love that most could not quite define.
What I am referring to is the Intimate Love bond between two people. The restlessness within so many intimate relationships is an indication to me that there is a need for this emotion and / or these relationships to evolve. The restlessnesswe are experiencing seems to be a longing for something that has been missing throughout so many lifetimes that we have forgotten what it was. Something so much a part of us that we know that it is not there, but we no longer know how to define it.
I began to seek the answer to my own deep longing.
'Soulmate' no longer fit the bill. I had met many soulmates in my life and many of those relationships have been non-intimate in nature. Who are Soulmates and how do they attain that status? Some say simply that Soulmates are people you have had many past life experiences with and therefore have developed a bond that threads through time. Some go on to say that they are also part of a 'Soul Group'. Going deeper, it seems that depending on your origin of Star Stuff, so defines your Soul Group and therefore Soulmates with whom you have had many past life experiences.
Then a buzz word started cropping up all around me. TWIN FLAME.
The Twin Flame has been defined in a way that reminds me of the Yin / Yang symbol. The Yin and Yang are seperate entities that merge together to create one unit of perfect balance. So the Twin Flame is defined as one perfectly balanced soul unit comprised of two seperate soul entities that are seperated and sent to earth to evolve for Ascension and rejoin back into its higher whole.
According to the definition of the Twin Flame experience, every relationship that we have throughout time is to evolve towards Ascension and prepare us for the merging with our lost Twin Flame. As we are collectively evolving, preparing for Ascension, so too are we evolving in our Love Relationships to closer match the love involved in a relationship with our Twin Flame.
I choose to believe that this phenomenon exists. My perfect balance is out there preparing to merge with me. Together we will create an exponential level of Love energy fueling the acceleration of the global evolution. My Twin Flame and I will complete our evolution together by assisting the global community and ultimately ascend and actually, finally, go home. Together.
Or maybe, I'm just a hopeless romantic star-gazer chasing unicorns and fairy dust...
May you find the LOVE you seek,
however you choose to define it.