Wednesday, August 14, 2019

You are Powerful...

a candle lit in daylight,
Has no other frame of reference
But inferiority to the encompassing Sun
That same candle in pitch black
Owns its power
Effortlessly pushing back the dark
Cutting a hole in the emptiness
The Dark cowers to the light
Incapable of Extinguishing the flame.
Shine your Light.
You are more powerful than you know.

Thursday, August 1, 2019

When the Law of Attraction is Bringing you Down...

I hear many people asking, "Why Can't I Manifest?" 

Obstacles are part of the process.  Some people just can't seem to get off of the ground with manifesting.  Others have no trouble getting started in manifesting, however, at some point they hit obstacles, and sometimes the entire thing just explodes or crumbles.

Is it possible to manifest your desires with EASE?

Yes!  However, there are some important reasons why affirming your way to your desires isn't working the way you want it to.

Firstly, as we are learning new tools and exercises, we need to remember to be gentle with ourselves.  You are learning, what I hope for you to be a life-long process, so you don't need to get it all right, right now.  In fact, in the early stages I have found that DOING IT is far more important that doing it PERFECTLY.  These practices are constantly evolving.  Eventually you will find the practices that work best for you and maybe even develop some tools of your own.  There are many ways up the mountain.  Some ways are faster and easier to tread.

The most important thing to understand when starting on a journey of Manifestation and Spiritual Health is that you need to clear out the old negative toxins to create a space for the new stuff coming in.  This is a common practice in Feng Shui.  Decluttering is essential, to raise the positive energy of a space.  You also need to REMOVE the negative energy items to make space for higher vibrational items to come in.  In fact, it is commonly suggested that if you are single and trying to bring love into your life, leave open space in your bedroom closet and empty dresser drawers for your new love to move in.  Clear out negative misconceptions about love, relationships, and the partner you think you seek.  In working with our emotional or self-image baggage there are many examples and I will cite two of my favorites.

In Julia Cameron's book, THE ARTISTS WAY, she talks about identifying your "Inner Critic" and reprogramming that chatter with new positive thoughts.  My experience in those early days was that the negative self chatter was so bonded and ingrained in me that I didn't even recognize it or identify it.  It took a lot of journaling and paying attention for me to identify what my "Inner Critic" was whispering into my ear keeping me from love and success. Different modalities of energy work also helped tremendously, including Ancestral Clearing, Childhood Trauma Reprogramming, Past Life Regression, and Access Consciousness.  You can find descriptions of these on my website. 

In the famous PSYCHO-CYBERNETICS by Dr. Maxwell Maltz, he talks about working with people on their Self-Image reprogramming.  One story is of a man who's image of himself was so repulsive and unworthy due to the size of his ears and nose.  Dr. Maltz explains that this man's self image was so distorted from what was real that the man was seeking unnecessary plastic surgery when all he needed was to "see" himself as others truly saw him.  What is your Inner Critic telling you?  What is your big ugly nose?  What inside of you has kept you from your Heart's Desire?  Be courageous in your honesty! You can't reverse it, if you haven't identified it in the first place. Having a Certified Intuitive Energy Practitioner can be a great help in assisting you in gently identifying the misconceptions of your "Big Nose" with compassion and non-judgemental guidance.

Once you have identified the negative beliefs, judgements and programming that is sabotaging your success and relationships, you need to acknowledge, release and replace them with a more desirable belief.  Easier said than done!  Finding the source of the negative belief and then disqualifying the negative belief, are major keys to successfully reaching a change... and well worth the extra effort.

For example, if you discover (which is common) that you have negative feelings about people that are wealthy and that is keeping you from amassing your own wealth.  First identify where this idea came from.  Did you have a parent who complained about the rich? Did someone who was wealthy bring harm?  Does it truly make sense to your logical mind to lump all people with money in this category?  Can you find people of wealth using their money and influence to help the less fortunate or impact the world in a positive way?

Cut out pictures of people that you would like to emulate and really "get to know them".  Hold conversations with them in your mind to let THEIR success and THEIR belief systems guide you.  Getting to the root of your blocks can be painful.  In some cases you will be releasing long buried pain and emotional trauma.

I myself have gone through periods where a new layer peels away and I am raw, emotional and vulnerable.  I can be filled with great sorrow, sobbing while old, unidentified wounds are released.  This can also come up as extreme anger.  Recognizing this as part of the process, allowing yourself to work through it and stay in gratitude works wonders.  During one recent bout with deep, painful sorrow, I held onto the mantra, "I am so grateful and thankful that my heart is opening and healing." My heart was in unbearable pain.  I was crying all of the time.  But I stuck to that mantra, walking and breathing.  I became afraid that I would need Prozac, but I stuck with my mantra, walking and breathing and I did get to the other side of the pain.  Once the emotions worked their way through, I had a new freedom that I had not experienced before.

As these layers of negative emotions, thoughts, misconceptions lift off and clear out, I have found that I more effortlessly attract that which I desire because I have less contradictions to the desire.  You attract that which you vibrate to collectively.  When the depths of you vibrate a deep childhood misconception of "they don't love me", or "I have no value", you can do intense mantras to call in your perfect mate, but the collective between the two (the childhood trauma and the conscious mantra) will create dissonance and you will end up with a mess with a seemingly strong but toxic connection with another soul that we sometimes call a Karmic Contract.

Keep in your awareness that as you remove Layers of the Onion of your Humanness, you will inevitably uncover negative emotions or responses or even self-sabotaging fears.  Be gentle with yourself as you work through these.  The obstacles you uncover as you dig deeper and deeper into your soul, may even be toxic baggage from existences that you no longer hold in your current awareness.  Sometimes, there are even instances where an individual attains a level of success, love, and relationships that they always dreamed of only to hit some jarring obstacles of self sabotage and destroy it all.  Fear not, if you build it up once, you can do it again!

Keep at it! Trust that the Divine is walking with you the whole way and don't be afraid to ask your Guides and Angels to fill you with Love and Light.  They are always there for you!  However, you do NEED to ask.

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Saturday, January 12, 2019

Numerology Report for 2019

Welcome to 2019!  In the Divining art of Numerology, we are now in a Universal Year of 3 (2+0+1+9=12 ; then 1+2=3) This can offer some insight in where to focus your energies for greatest Universal support.  There is further information from learning what your Personal Year is, and how to mesh them for a year of great success in propelling you towards your long term goals and higher purpose! Here I will explain how to calculate your personal year and a brief description of what that means!  Here's to a fabulous 2019 and if I can help to support you in your goals, please let me know! - Ariana

UNIVERSAL YEAR: The number 3 in Numerology represents the Child, the Creation.  This is going to be a wonderful year on a Universal Level to create new and also to focus on the Inner Child, the wonderment and wisdom of Children, and to let your own inner Child create, play, and revel in this wonderful thing called Life.  I am treating this year as an opportunity to get back into creative endeavors long forgotten.  I have signed up for several art classes already.  Nothing too serious!  Kids don't like "serious"!  Ride your bike, allow yourself to wander through a toy store and play, or explore nature looking for fairies!  These activities will nourish your soul, especially this year in ways that you will not fully understand and most certainly make your adult world flourish from the newfound joy of your inner Child.

PERSONAL YEAR: Calculating your Personal Year is easy!  Take your Birth Month, plus your day of birth and add them down to one digit.  Ex. December 29 (1+2+2+9 = 14; then 1+4 = 5) 
Take your month and day Number and add it to the Universal Year of 3.  In our example we add 5+3=8
This person born on Dec 29 has a Personal Year of 8 .  
(Please note that the birth year is irrelevant for this calculation) 
Now Scroll Down and read about your Personal year.

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Personal Year 1
A New Beginning In Your Life
The 1 Year is the beginning of a new nine year cycle for you. Last year was a 9, where you shed many things, people and experiences that would not serve you going forward.  Congrats! You made it through and the reward is the promise of being on an exciting new adventure, with life taking on new challenges that pave the way for the next cycle of nine years in your life. This is a time to clarify your goals and it is a time to act on them. Hard work may be necessary to get a new venture moving. Your endurance, energy and manifesting skills will be up during this year, perhaps higher than it has been for some time, as you have some special needs for this extra energy. If you are unable or unwilling to make changes  necessary now, your destiny may be delayed until the next cycle begins in nine years. Because of this, you feel like an adventure, a major change in your life, something new. New goals should be clearly set and worked toward, as this is really a new beginning of a nine year cycle and it is best not to dwell on the past at this time. This is a great time; use it to its full advantage. Receiving Coaching through this year is extremely powerful to utilize the energies of this year of forging a new life to its fullest advantage.
Personal Year 2
Cooperation and Collaboration
This is a number 2 personal year. While last year was a year that focussed on the Self and Personal Power, the Personal Year of 2 is a time to shift gears and collaborate, forge important partnerships and relationships, and become willing to co-pilot instead of running the whole show.  This is not a time to force the issue and try to move forward.  Aggressiveness will cause problems now.  A personal year 2 is a time for cooperation and building relationships that will benefit you in the future; a year for accumulating and collecting. You may give time and effort to further another's work. This is a time to improve your abilities to work with others in a productive way. In romantic relationships, there can be very deep emotional connections with a person of the opposite sex.  Soul connections are common in the 2 year that can lead to deep intimacy and marriage.  If married or in a committed relationship, there is apt to be a deepening of feelings in the relationship during a 2 year.  However, if the relationship has run its course, the 2 year is the year it is likely to end in a parting of ways. Keep calm, cool, and pleasant. You may experience a degree of nervous tension during this period; the two year brings a tendency to emotional extremes including depression. If relationships are sensitive or important to you this year, additional guidance and coaching could be of great value to you. 
Personal Year 3
Social expansion, creative successes, childlike wonderment
You are in a Double Whammy of 3's this Year!  How exciting for you! If you are going into a 3 personal year. This is a social, creative, happy year. It generally tends to exude bright and cheerful vibrations reminiscent of a playful child. A 3 personal year is a good time to expand personal creative talents, particularly those related to the arts and verbal skills.  This is a year when you will want to check up on old friends and broaden your social circle to include some new ones. Romance and love affairs may bloom, but beware that often in this year, these are more "summer love" in energy than serious long term loves. You are inclined to live life to its fullest now, even if you have to pay the consequences later on. You are likely to be more sociable and the bridle of responsibility will seem to be loosened a bit. You are inclined to scatter your energies and undertake too many things at the same time. You can safely take some time off to enjoy yourself, but resist the temptation to completely give in to having a good time; keep your goals in mind. Children do not do responsibility and seriousness well.  Take some time to keep your wits about you among the fun and camaraderie, and make sure your business is being attended to, otherwise it may be a disastrous year on the business scene. Beware of having a frivolous attitude, making rash decisions and dreaming up impractical schemes. This is not likely to be a very good year for your finances, and it is fortunate that the next year is designed to compensate these effects.  This is will be a fun year for you, but if you think you might get too far off track with your business during the fun, you may consider some coaching and guidance to keep your train on the track while you're living it up in the party car. 

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Personal Year 4
Hard work, Home, building foundations, steady progress
If you are in a Personal Year of 4, the frivolity of your Number 3 year last year should be truly forgotten, as the party comes to an end and we view with foggy, sober eyes, the mess that our party guests left behind.  This is a year of hard work and effort. In year 1 we defined our goals, in year 2 we formed partnerships, in year 3 we began to create and had some fun, and now in year 4 we are ready to build the foundation of our new venture.  This is a year of sleeves rolled up, digging in and putting in the work.  In many ways, however, it is a frustrating year, when considerable effort fails to produce dramatic results. One step forward and two back may seem to be the case most of the time. This is an organizational period and you must look at your current and past performance in a very hard light. It is a time to get organized and bring yourself down to earth. Responsibilities will increase, magnifying the effort and hard work needed to maintain a reasonable level of existence. Health and diet should be carefully scrutinized this year, as physical resistance is low and you may become more susceptible to ailments. Focussing on organizing of home, keeping a peaceful home, will also be important to contribute to the hard work necessary this year. A tidying up of affairs in all areas is now in order, as you must make ready for a very hectic year ahead. If you find this year to be too much work, or are still too scattered from the energies of last year's partying, great focus and direction can be gained from outside coaching and guidance to keep you on task and cheer you on to your Personal Year of 5 next year.
Personal Year 5
Drama, Travel, Expanding Connections
This is a number 5 year, a year of major change in your life. Horizons are expanded and growth is less impeded. You are likely to make a number of new friends this year as social activities and networking events are expanding again. This is a year that has brought/will bring excitement and adventure and a good deal more freedom than you have experienced in recent years. This is a time for feeling loose and free; for moving away from old routines in a constructive way. Travel, particularly overseas, or interactions with international persons through business or internet is likely this year. If you became bogged down during this past year, now is the time to seek out new directions. The problem with a personal year 5 is the tendency to scatter energies in all directions. The number 5 can attract drama and chaos, so be aware.  Overuse of alcohol and volatile relationships can arise in the 5 year.  Your ability to do detail work is limited now and it will make you feel very confined. In all, this a free-wheeling year that is liable to bring major changes to your life; your career, your family situation, your residence. Like the 3 year, the 5 year is fun and full of merry making.  However, the 3 year has a childlike innocence to its frivolities and the 5 year can be more wreckless, like a teenager.  You could greatly benefit from having outside help through guidance coaching to keep your inner teen from crashing the company car or making impulsive choices that create major setbacks to the life you have been building.
Personal Year 6
SoulMate Love, Family Responsibilities
If you are going in to a Personal Year of 6, you have some interesting energies on the horizon. This year tends to bring on increasing responsibilities and a deepening concern for family, loved ones, and close friends. It may be a year when you are called on to make some adjustments in your life, or sacrifices for those in your family or close circle of friends. Don't be surprised if you move-in with a sick family member to care for them or if a family member just had a baby and you are asked to move in to help out.  You may even feel prompted to have a famiy member move in with you to help them.  This is not really a year for major accomplishments, but rather a time to handle those adjustments to your plans that may be necessary or required, and for finishing projects started earlier. Endeavors will seem to be moving so very slowly throughout this year. You should expect to have a very good year so far as family, domestic, and romantic matters are concerned. This is a year to meet persons from your Soul Group, karmic connections, whether romantic or to enhance your business or be your best friend.  Persons from your Soul Group will appear for your benefit this year.  Your emotional interchange with those who are close to you should be at its very best during this particular year. The important thing is to be willing to accept a slower pace and be sure to enjoy the peace and harmony that the personal year number 6 will bring. The Personal Year of 6 can be a slow and frustrating time of unexpected responsibility, and lacking in forward movement.  It could be beneficial to gain encouragement and insights from a coaching or guidance session.

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Personal Year 7
Spiritual Seeking, Inner Work, Quietude
The Personal Year of 7 is a very introspective year of pause and reflection. This year should provide you with some time for gaining some understanding of yourself and deepening your connection to Spirit, how you define "God", and even learning to hear that soft whisper of your Higher Self and Spirit Guides. Whether you are an extreme extrovert or not, you are apt to spend a good bit of time in quietude and contemplation. It will be good for you to spend time alone or in quiet activities, as free from outside responsibilities as possible. You should try to get away from business pressures. This is a good year to reflect on the past and plan for the future. This will not tend to be a year of action, but rather a year of waiting and development. The most "profitable" activities this year are reading, studying and writing, for your ability to think clearly, analyze, and integrate your thoughts is peaked now. Your capacity for research and understanding is at its very best. Whether your studies and contemplation are focussed on how to take your business to the next level, or seeking answers to man's highest spiritual questions, you will benefit greatly from allowing yourself time away from a lot of socializing and hob-knobbing. It would not be unusual for you to take on an appearance of coolness and detachment during a 7 year. Certainly, it is best for you to focus your attention on your talents and your skills in an effort to use the time you have now to refine them. Perhaps you can find the time to gain more education, or simply spend free time in journalling, reflection and meditation. This is a time to focus on Spirituality and Spiritual workings.  If you have interest in deepening your connection with Spirit Guides and the Spirit World, you will gain much assistance from Coaching or Guidance Sessions. 
Personal Year 8
Lessons with Money, CEO
The Personal Year of 8 is focussed on Money, Wealth, and Material Advancement.  This does not mean that these things will come to you magically however, be aware that the possibility of material success is in the air this year and its up to you to make the best of these times.  This is a power year, a period when you can make important strides in your life with proper attention to stewarding your money and making sound choices. Coming after a very slow and introspective period (the personal year 7), you may start feeling some stirrings of ambitions and set into motion the ideas and knowledge gained in your period of introspection last year. This is a year of big decisions and the possibility of major achievements. Activity is your keynote now, and you will find yourself very much involved and occupied. Opportunities for advancement and recognition for past and current work is likely to come about during this year. You have things going for you so long as you take advantage and act. It is easy for you to branch out and expand in a businesslike manner. If you are at all inclined, this is the time to exude self-confidence and authority, because others will tend to be receptive to your leadership and control. Your power and status potential is at a peak of the nine years personal epicycle that concludes at the end of the next year.  Caution in how frivolous you are with your money at this time.  Stewardship and sensibility are paramount.  To take full advantage of the power of this time, you may seek guidance and counseling.
Personal Year 9
Closing the chapter, letting go
Congratulations! You are in the closing year of another 9 year cycle!  This is not typically an easy year for people because the main energy of the Year of 9 is about letting go of all of the people, places and things that will not serve you in your next 9 year cycle starting next year with your 1 year.  This 9 Year of completions, ending, and reflections is a time when you are encouraged to take inventory of the past 8 years. You are likely to scrutinize old values, ideals, and the ideas that you thought were important and consider that which has been working and who or what might no longer serve your Highest Good. This is a time of Humanitarianism.  You may become more involved with others and giving may become more important that merely looking out for yourself. You may gain personal benefit from voluteer work this year.  You may also become aware of a lure to commune with nature, as escapist desires become much stronger than in the past. A lot of things that you have been working for should come to completion during this year, and you will tend to clear the deck for the beginning of a new nine year cycle.  This is a wonderful year to gain guidance and counseling on how to clear out all of the old energies from the last 8 years and how best to prepare yourself for a clean slate for next year's New Beginnings Personal Year of 1.

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Wednesday, January 9, 2019

Law of Attraction: What is Spiritual Flotsam?

I believe that Spiritual Flotsam is evidence that you are in the flow of that which you seek. The term "flotsam" is defined (among other things) as FLOTSAM: N. 1. floating wreckage of a ship or its cargo 2. floating debris

If you are seeking treasure, and you see evidence of the Pirate ship wreckage (flotsam), you can be certain you are on the right course to finding the treasure. Spiritual Flotsam is worth celebrating but should not ever be confused with the goal or treasure. When we are sending up prayers of intention for that which we seek, whether it be a new love, a new job or business opportunity, we will often see evidence that we are in the flow of that which we seek through encounters with Spiritual Flotsam.
This morning I was driving my car down the road. While stopped at a red light in a pack of cars, I felt pulled to look at the car next to me. A handsome man in a new Jeep Rubicon was looking at me very intently. Handsome! Very nice rugged vehicle! 😄 We smiled at each other. It seems like a small thing but I rarely smile at strange men. We drove for several miles along the same course, passing each other and smiling at each other occasionally. It was quite charming and made me giggle. I consider this encounter to be Flotsam. Evidence that the love which I seek is on the way.
Have you ever settled for the Flotsam thinking it was the Real Thing and wondered why it went horribly?! I have! We get excited, I know! We make excuses for why this "real thing" didn't show up with all the bells and whistles that we'd hoped for. We don't know that it is just Flotsam. We act like the martyr for accepting less than we originally thought we deserved. Silly person. You just settled for Flotsam instead of waiting on the treasure! Don't beat yourself up. I've done it a hundred times, in a hundred different ways. Now I encourage you to set your goals, work on YOU so you vibrate to attract The Best, and do not settle for the Flotsam!

Friday, December 14, 2018

Transcending Your Current Situation

Crab mentality (or crabs in a bucket) refers to a pattern of behavior noted in crabs when they are trapped in a bucket. While any one crab could easily escape, its efforts will be undermined by the others pulling them back into the bucket, ensuring the group's collective demise.
This same mentality in humans makes it difficult to elevate beyond your current circle. A drunk trying to get sober will receive criticism and manipulation from his drinking buddies to keep him on the bottle and in the bar. Likewise, those trying to better themselves financially, physically, spiritually, or other ways will be deterred by those not moving at their same pace.
If you are making people uncomfortable, that's their stuff to look at and work out. The problem is that people would rather point a finger than work on their sh*t.
Don't let them pull you back down. There's a big, beautiful world beyond the bucket.

Monday, November 5, 2018

November is Gratitude Month

"What we focus on expands"

When we are faced with challenging times, stresses of the day to day, and / or faced with the challenges and stresses of others, it can be easy to find ourselves in frustration, fear, or grief.  We want to be heard and sometimes we share our struggles and disappointments.  Sometimes that "sharing" takes over our world.  It is when these hardships of thought, word, or vibration start to take the forefront of our minds and experience, that they become a real problem in our world.  They create more stress and hardship.  So if you are spun out in a cycle of challenges, this is a time to stop and find our gratitude. 

What are you grateful for right this moment?  Take time to feel that gratitude in your heart and thank Spirit for whatever that is for you.  The more gratitude "time outs" you take, the more moments worthy of gratitude will appear in your world.  What we focus on expands. 

Sunday, October 21, 2018

Ancestral Clearing Client Testimonial! Her Pain is Gone!

I had another amazing #clientTestimonial ... A few days ago, I worked on a woman who had broken her ankle some years ago. The x-rays missed the break, and she walked on it in pain for a year before they figured out what was really wrong. By then, she was told, "oopsie, sorry, can't do much now..."😭😭😭😭
She's been in pain for years, going to various professionals to alleviate the pain. A few days ago, I did an Ancestral Clearing on her ankle. It turns out that there was trapped trauma from a Past Life/Ancestor Trauma that was stuck there... we cleared the energy of the trauma from her ankle and she felt better... cool! 🙂
So I called her today (a few days have passed since the clearing work) and SHE STARTED YELLING AT ME!!!! 😲
"I don't know what you did, but my ankle, my foot...
it doesn't even feel like my foot! IT DOESN'T FEEL LIKE MY FOOT!"😡
Oh my! So I told her calmly that I didn't really understand, "who's foot does it feel like?" 🤔🤔🤔
"No!" she bellowed, "you don't understand!" "My ankle, my foot, has been hurting for me every day since the accident and since you worked on it, I don't feel any pain at all! It feels so normal, that it doesn't even feel like my foot!"💖🤗😍
OMG! Yay! How cool is that? And I also worked on her ear that is supposed to be operated on soon... except now that doesn't hurt either... 🤣💖🤣💖
I am conducting a group clearing my love donation this Saturday... follow the link for details...